From Starter to Finisher: How to Break the Habit of Leaving Things Half-Done
This year, let's master the art of finishing what we start—and reclaim our sense of accomplishment!
Do you ever feel like a serial starter?
You dive headfirst into exciting projects, brimming with enthusiasm and ambition, only to lose steam halfway through. Whether it’s that book you planned to write, the fitness routine you promised to stick to, or even the drawer full of knitting supplies you swore you’d conquer, the pattern is the same: unfinished tasks piling up like laundry after a holiday.
Trust me, you’re not alone. Starting is exciting—there’s a burst of energy, creativity, and potential. Finishing, on the other hand? That’s where the real grind begins.
But here’s the thing: finishing isn’t just about ticking things off a to-do list. It’s a habit, a skill, and—wait for it—a superpower.
Why We Don’t Finish Things
The Spark Fades: Let’s be real. Once the novelty wears off, the project starts to feel like hard work.
Too Many Goals: It’s tempting to take on everything at once, but juggling too much often leads to nothing getting done.
Fear of Imperfection: Sometimes, we quit because we’re scared the end result won’t match the grand vision we had in our heads.
Shiny Object Syndrome: New ideas always seem more exciting than sticking with the old ones, right?
Sound familiar? Don’t worry—you’re not doomed to a life of half-finished plans. You just need a better approach.
A New Year, A New You: The Joy of Finishing
This year, let’s take on a bold challenge: finish what we start. Or, at the very least, choose consciously what deserves our time and what doesn’t. It’s not about being perfect—it’s about being purposeful.
Here’s how to build the habit of finishing:
Start With a Decision: When you begin something, make a firm decision to see it through. Set your intention and remind yourself why it matters.
The Power of One: Resist the urge to juggle too many projects. Focus on one thing at a time, and you’ll be amazed at how much you can accomplish.
Break It Down: Big goals can feel overwhelming. Break them into smaller, manageable chunks, and celebrate each milestone along the way.
Set Deadlines (Even Fake Ones): Deadlines create urgency. Even if it’s just a self-imposed due date, it helps you stay on track.
Accept Imperfection: Remember, done is better than perfect. No one’s going to judge you for a less-than-flawless project. They’re too busy admiring the fact that you finished!
What’s On Your Finish List?
Take a moment to reflect on all the projects, ideas, and plans you’ve started but left hanging. Which ones still light you up? Which ones feel more like obligations than passions?
Here’s the secret: It’s okay to consciously discard or delay some things. The goal isn’t to finish everything; it’s to finish what truly matters to you.
Ready to Become a Finisher?
If this resonates with you, let’s take this journey together. Join me for my upcoming webinar, where I’ll share practical tips and strategies to help you stay motivated, manage your time effectively, and finally break free from the cycle of unfinished business.
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Signoff:
Here’s to a year of actually finishing what we start! Because let’s face it: half-knitted scarves and unread books aren’t sparking joy anymore.
Lavi Sharma
PS: If you made it to the end of this blog post, congrats—you’re already off to a great start as a finisher! Now, about that webinar... 😉 Click here to take the next step!